Step 1 - go ahead and elope.
Step 2 - involve wacky friends in the elopement process which eventually inspire a song title for the reception cake.
Step 3 - plan an interactive musicfest to celebrate aforementioned elopement.
(Okay, so maybe Toar and Candace didn't exactly plan it out that way. A little creative license on my part, I admit.)
The newlyweds are members of the rather happy-go-lucky group of Irish musicians my son is involved in. So, when they planned their reception, they planned a lot of music and dancing right into it. More on that later. For right now, let's talk about the cake....